You have now lived a full eight decades of life. Congratulations! As you look back I hope that you will be able to say that it has been a good ride over these last eighty years. I also hope that your body has continued to serve you well. I sure hope that you have all your teeth, not too many wrinkles (except for those smile lines!) and that you still like to wear a nice fitting pair of black jeans.You will be the talk of the family if you do!
On your birthday, I’m sure you’re celebrating by remembering your long and amazing life. With the family by your side, you’ll watch the home videos we made, flip through the scrapbooks and photo albums, and talk about your favorite heirlooms from your grandparents that you still have on the mantle. You’re lucky, not only to be in good health but also to have recorded so much of your life history for the rest of the family to enjoy.
But please don’t forget – even though you are now an old lady (in body, but young in spirit), you can still continue with this legacy work. Don’t forget to talk about your experiences, hopes, dreams, and what life has taught you along the way. Your children and grandchildren need to hear you tell your stories. They might be curious how you cherished the hippy era, living in San Francisco and that funny smelling stuff you smoked back then. On second thought, maybe you might not want to tell them about that.
But do tell them about growing up. They will want to hear about how you felt when you became a mom for the first time. They will be curious to know what got you through the tough times in life – through multiple miscarriages, the suicide of a close family member, and the disappointments of rejection and failure. But most importantly, tell them how you bounced back and always kept your head up high. Life is all about learning from our hardships, and you’ve certainly done that.
Oh, before I forget, have a HAPPY BIRTHDAY and as you blow out the candles on your cake, please make a wish that you will live at least another 20 years. You still have a lot to accomplish and the energy to do it!
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