As a personal historian, I often get asked the basic question: How can I preserve my family’s history? While the question seems simple, there are many ways to answer this.
In this post, I will present a few of the options. That way you can understand what’s available and explore the best fit for you and your family.
Oral history: recording your voice
To begin, simply turn on a digital audio recorder and start to recall memories of the past. This first recording session could be as simple as your telling your favorite family stories. You could record memories of your mother’s great prowess in the kitchen, or your father’s antics growing up.
There are many books that can guide you through this process, providing questions and topics that you might like to speak to (see the list of recommended reading at the bottom of this post). You could also hire a professional – a personal historian to bring his or her expertise to the project.
Writing: jotting down your memories
Grab a pen and paper (or your laptop), and let the memories flow. Some of you will find this an easy and enjoyable task, others won’t. Writer’s block is a common problem, so don’t worry if you have a hard time getting started. Recording your memories takes determination and discipline. To help guide you, there are ‘fill-in-the-blank’ books that provide prompts and questions to answer. These kinds of books can be infinitely helpful in creating content. One of our favorites is Our Family Tree and Album – Edited by Samone Bos.
Looking for more inspiration? Find a local memoir writing class, and attend faithfully. The class will help you with written self-expression, and the discipline needed to follow through with your story. By the end of the class you will be well on your way to a full-fledged memoire. These classes are typically offered through continued adult education programs at local community colleges, adult community centers, and local libraries.
Artwork: creating memories
Have you enjoyed scrapbooking over the years? Have you made a ‘shadow box frame’ containing personal memorabilia, which belonged to an ancestor? Do you sew custom-made story quilts? Does your home have a family photo gallery? Artwork like this adds character to a home, and creates strong connections from one generation to another. For the artistically inclined, a family history project is hard to beat.
Film: producing a multimedia experience
In beautiful high-definition, film is quickly becoming the go-to medium for personal history. Films can beautifully document a life story. Regional accents, facial expressions, and personal recollections can all be captured on film, along with still photographs, family movies, and other personal mementos. Films also incorporate a musical score, to add drama and emotion to the story.
Click here to view some sample family history films.
This is just a short overview of some of the options you have in preserving your family history. I hope I have fueled your desire to kick off the project. You have a story to tell. Why not start today?
The following is a short bibliography of how-to books on the subject of personal history preservation:
The Story Only You Can Tell – Creating Your Family History With Ease and Expertise by Toni Sorenson Brown
Creative Journal Writing – The Art and Heart of Reflection by Stephanie Dowrick
Touching Tomorrow – How to Interview Your Loved Ones to Capture a Lifetime of Memories on Video or Audio
Legacy – A Step-By-Step Guide To Writing Personal History by Linda Spence
You Don’t Have To Be Famous – How to Write Your Life Story by Steve Zousmer
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Check out the Association of Personal Historians’ web site for more information on personal history preservation.